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Originally Posted by 24r135
My kink is that I enjoy seeing women in precarious situations, plausible deniability or accidental, such that others who might have seen it may have an opinion about it. For example, an upskirt caused by the wind is Much more interesting to me if it happens to an older woman who didn't expect it than a stunning young blonde; as if people would expect the older lady to feel more ashamed. Hope that makes sense. What is especially attractive to me is if such an unexpected person is secretly doing it on purpose.
As if someone might say in such a situation "I just saw your pussy, but you should've shaven it because it looks quite messy", and that would then be the reason the person would be ashamed of it, not that you just saw her nude. I know of someone who's less afraid of accidentally showing her (perfectly kept) lips than to show her boobs, because boobs are more present and her pussy is more of an innocent body part? I don't know.
A few years ago a lady in her 40's cycled towards me (cycling country) on a city bike, accidentally giving me an upskirt view of her shaven and uncovered pubic area. Rare occurrence but engraved in memory. I think it was accidental, but given her age and physique I found it extremely interesting that she was so bald down there.
But at the same time I've seen my MIL nude plenty of times. She is hairy and her pussy looks quite complex. She isn't ashamed around me but I imagine she wouldn't want to show it 'accidentally' to strangers because others might not find it pretty.
So, my vote:
bald when she has some weight and/or age (because it doesn't match the stereotype)
and hairy in all other situations (because it doesn't match the stereotype)
age: 37
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I like your explanation. While I don't have the same kink as you, I like it when it doesn't match the stereotype, and when women might feel ashamed of it.
I can enjoy a shaved pussy, but I prefer a hairy pussy. I'm now 39 and my wife is 35, I met her when she was 18. She was shaven, as was common for 18 year olds at that time. After a few months together, I asked her to grow it out, because I wanted to see and feel how that would look like. She was a bit reluctant, but she did grow it out. She didn't like it and couldn't understand I still liked eating her out.
In the first years, she changed back to shaving a couple of times, or trimming. But over time, she got used to the bush, although even until this day she thinks it is "too hairy" and that shaved or trimmed would look much better. But she knows I like it, and she actually finds it convenient not having to shave or trim anymore, even though she doesn't like the look on herself.
She has been a few times in situations where she felt ashamed, like when going to the doctor. Previously, she would shave the hair on her lips when going to the doctor, as she felt ashamed of her hairy lips. Now, she doesn't shave her lips anymore, but she is still not 100% comfortable with it. Also, she noticed often in the changing rooms of the gym that she usually was the only woman of her age with a bush, others would be shaved or have a landing strip. I can recall her story that she was in the changing room and the only other women with a bush were over 50 years. She was around 25 at that time.
She is always dressed nicely and feminine, and uses make up and perfume. Anyone who would see her, would see a fit, attractive, 35 year old woman. The type of woman of which you would expect that she would be shaved bare. I really like that contrast when I'm taking off her clothes, and at the moment I pull her panties down, I see her messy, unruly, untrimmed full bush. I know she would be very ashamed if other would see how hairy she is.
I also agree on your point of a bald pussy when she has some weight. My ex-girlfriend had overweight, she was over 250 lbs. I've been with her a few times in the shower and saw her squat down to shave her pussy. That way the skin would be stretched enough to get a smooth shave. Her belly was still in the way, so she always had to feel with her left hand and shave with her right hand to get everything smooth. It looked more complicated than for other women, but despite that, she could always do a super smooth shave. I've never seen her with more than a bit of stubble. Especially because of the effort she had to put in it compared to other women, and the fact that she could shave so smooth, that after a shave it felt and looked like it was waxed, I enjoyed that as well. She didn't choose the easy way.