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Old 08-24-2023, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Posoum1974 View Post
Excellent suggestion - however her concern is not confidence but rather caution. She’s very careful who we play with and will vet them over multiple conversations. My fantasy is that, for once, she puts caution to the wind and dates someone on the spur of the moment.

I completely understand the caution, I've been involved with married couples in the past and there has always been a "feeling out" period, a vetting period, a confirming of identity, and in other cases testing.

Also, it is great the confidence is not an issue for your wife but in this case I was suggesting is a way to draw in confident men, who would have the courage to talk to her and pursue her.
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