Quiet shame.
Sharing my wife: whether it’s allowing her to verbally flirt, dance, expose herself, us being watched by, or lightly to full on physically with another man. All is for sure my, and her, fantasy talks.
I think the “ashamed of…”, for me, is just letting those close to us know, or people I have to interact with on the regular. It would not sit well with me to be asked a hundred questions, judged, or to be pointed out, or called out by someone for what we personally share and do in our relationship.
Oddly enough, I full on, no holding back, have had these in depth discussions with guys I have never met before-and mainly when traveling and out of town. Someone I know I most likely will never see again. Sharing their views and fantasy experiences is always super easy, and avoids all shame and judgement.
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