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Originally Posted by Ugg1982
She asked that I don’t bring it up and I told her of course I wouldn’t.
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I have several friends where both spouses are my friend, together and separately.
It gets interesting sometimes. My best friend (female) tells me so many things about her husband that he doesn't know that I know--everything from very explicit sexual details to private conversations they have had as a couple--so when I am with him, it makes conversations very interesting when I know way more of the story. Of course I don't share things they don't want me to share. And from him I know things about my friend that I wish I could tell her that I knew.
Same with another couple friend that I have. They were separated for exactly one year, and I would see each of them separately. The things I know that they don't know that I know about each other. It does give me a very different sense of intimacy in my relationships with them, though. Although it is weird that my friend (male) thinks of his wife as this very reserved, sexually conservative woman, but I know her as a woman who has all these kinks and wants to try all these things and has pushed many boundaries at her conferences she attends for her career. Of course the sexual stuff is fun, but it makes me feel badly for the other spouse, too.