[Gee_Star]

I'm going to try to be very clear and concise with this post. I've never gotten fully into the BDSM lifestyle and I've never gone to any sort of club or meet-up for this lifestyle or fetish. This was some rougher sex that I engaged in with a woman for a short period of time.

When I and this woman talked about experimenting with rougher sex, we immediately understood that because we are in this lifestyle we should take some precautions, so we developed a safeword the safe word was "Kirby" in reference to the video game character.

We selected him because it's something we'd both immediately recognize and since Kirby is not a human character he can't be sexualized so hearing his name immediately allowed me to bring things to an immediate stop.

We also developed other things for her to do if she couldn't speak (such as her being gagged or face fucked). My nipples, while they are sensitive, do not give me sexual pleasure, so pinching my nipples will immediately give me a very unpleasant sensation, so I understood that if she were reaching for my nipples to immediately stop.

Also if she could not reach my nipples, I told her to bite my penis, not hard and certainly not enough to draw blood but hard enough to be unpleasant and I told her I would immediately stop put my hands behind my back and allow her to gather herself and either continue or stop.