I've been having similar thoughts as Belphegor lately.
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1. Is it "bad" that we devote this much time to fetish/pornography?
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I've found that I have to assign a time limit to this. Currently I limit to 1 hour per day. I usually only get that hour on weekends. The reason is there's always more content and I was finding that if left alone it will consume my day. I'm old, so I can't really masturbate all day but I would still collect porn. This didn't seem healthy.
I also had to decide NEVER to spend money on porn. I've broken that rule a couple times but only for minor amounts and a really good reason.
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2. Would you guys say you have normal, healthy, social/sex lives?
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Yes but I'm old and I'm in a relationship with another old person who wants sex about 1/10th as much as I do. When I was young though, porn did not seem to interfere with relationships or sex, except with women who would find out about it and become offended. I've only had a few partners but they were long term. My current partner doesn't care but also doesn't know the details of the fetishes.
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3. Do you guys ever "burn out" on this content? Like after collecting 10+ TB of videos, do you feel nothing excites you. Nothing turns you on. Every fetish, every kink, etc. has been exhausted?
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Yes, on specific things. Like I used to collect GGW vids. There are a lot, and they're all the same, and I burned out on it. I lost my collection in a HD crash and realized later that I didn't miss it.
If you think you're socially inept, there are women out there who are also socially inept. But you be yourself. If you don't want to have a relationship with real women and just want to experience sex through porn, that's your business.