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Originally Posted by Belphegor

1. Is it "bad" that we devote this much time to fetish/pornography?

I would not say it's bad, I would simply say that if your viewing of pornography is starting to interfere with your ability to function as a normal person, then you should stop and seek help, likewise seek help if you've found yourself viewing or seeking especially tasteless pornography.

Originally Posted by Belphegor

2. Would you guys say you have normal, healthy, social/sex lives?

Yes, I've had plenty of partners, I've had plenty of sex, and I've pretty much done almost everything legally allowed under the sun except wife-sharing because not I'm married. I still go on dates and hang with friends at the same time, I'm in my late 30s sometimes I just want to relax alone for a while and just enjoy some porn, masturbate, and clear my head.

Also, the pandemic did cause me to scale things back socially and spend more time at home, for example, I've been a member of OneClickChicks for 18 years, yet the bulk of my posts have come after 2020.

Originally Posted by Belphegor

3. Do you guys ever "burn out" on this content? Like after collecting 10+ TB of videos, do you feel nothing excites you? Nothing turns you on. Every fetish, every kink, etc. has been exhausted?

I've experienced porn "burnout" before but I managed it by only sticking with women or fetishes I like and not going down the "rabbit holes" because those porn-based "rabbit holes" might be enjoyable but they are major time sinks and they can drain you emotionally and even physically. You have to police yourself in that regard because "burnout" mixed with porn withdrawal is b*tch to try to get over.

Also, stop being down on yourself, you're not a social loser. You can enjoy porn for what it is and still have healthy relationships with women but the truth is you have to be honest with yourself. Change and improve things about yourself that you know you're not comfortable with and embrace your quirks, abilities, and talent but you gotta stick with it and you gotta get out and touch grass. Soon you'll be having healthy social, platonic, sexual, and romantic relationships with women but it starts with you.