Wow, I don't remember seeing this thread...it's been 8 years!
While I have a sex like that a lot of people would DREAM about: sex every day, usually twice a day when we both work from home, all over the house when the kids are out--it's been this way for 20 years now, but it's not all roses.
She is EXTREMELY submissive. She never shows signs of being interested in sex (even though she obviously is). So, I will try to get her going with no signs back from her. But then if I don't peruse her, she gets upset. Because of her super conservative upbringing, it turns her on to act not interested and for me to do things anyway. She has this thing that turns her on to say "no" to me (and means it) but she wants me to keep doing things anyway. I am not totally comfortable with this as we get older, but it really, really turns her on. This was fun for the first decade of our marriage, but as we mature I would like equal reciprocation. She knows this, but refuses to change.
She says all of these sexy things she wants us to do, but when it comes down to it, she really just wants to lie on her back with her arms up, do nothing, yet still enjoy her 8-12 orgasms (with at least two huge orgasms every time that most women never reach in their lives) and squirting a gallon onto my side of the bed.
So, it's tricky. Lots of sex, and it's all amazing, I get off when she gets off, but she always gets her way and has no interest in what I want, probably because I am too easy and all she has to do is remove her bra in the living room in front of the huge windows and I am ready to go anywhere, any time!
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