When I first started taking my ex to nudist venues, we'd go to clothing-optional ones because she didn't want to be openly naked around a bunch of people. In social situations, she'd keep her sarong on at all times. When she did go nude it was "blink and you miss it" because she'd immediately get in the pool or hot tub; and cover up immediately after.
We joined a club (meeting other nudists at their home); which she was very reluctant to, and adamant about not being naked at. I'm not going to lie; it was disappointing that all the women there were naked, while she was wrapped up in her sarong. But I kept my mouth shut because I knew what would happen if I "pressed" her to get naked.
The third time we went, she had gotten to know some of the other women in the club. She started the day wrapped up as usual, and hung out with the other women inside the house while I went out to hang out with the "boys' out on the patio. I didn't hear from my wife for a while; when suddenly all the boys' heads turned towards the back door, looking at my wife walking out...completely naked! She then proceeds to walk around the patio, making her rounds and conversating with the other guests, full-frontal naked right in front of them! I think everyone was as surprised as I was. She didn't even talk to me at all; just every man in attendance. She stayed naked the rest of the evening.
She never did tell me the entire story behind it; but I was able to get the gist of it from the bits of information she gave me. One of the women she was hanging out with asked her why she was wearing her sarong all the time. My wife explained she was too modest. And she got talked into "ripping off the band-aid" by tossing her sarong, walking outside nude, and letting all the men see her completely naked. And that would certainly "cure her" of her modesty being seen naked, and it being appreciated.
And it certainly worked. I never found out who this woman was; but I owe her a debt of gratitude for convincing my wife to let everyone see her naked. I certainly never could manage it on my own.
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