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Originally Posted by sofengs
Long term relationship with my girlfriend here. She's wild with me behind closed doors but is shy when it comes to anyone else seeing her or doing stuff in front of others. She likes to wear loose fitting shirts that will occasionally give a view right down her shirt if she bends over or if you're above her when she's sitting. She usually wears a bra but some of her bras still allow you to see some nipple. I love whenever I notice someone glimpsing down her shirt but she's completely unaware of it. Anyone else in a situation like this? Should I tell her or just let it continue?
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I swear this identical question was asked a few years ago.
It's up to you to decide how much she would care, your relationship with her, and how much you respect her (and how much disrespect it would cause).
My wife likes when I don't tell her when she is showing something; but she also appreciates when I do--it's all about context and who is around when it happens. I know her internal "rules" for this, and I apply them as appropriate.
Same goes for wearing tops without a bra that are see-through in bright sunlight. Just yesterday she went outside like this, I let her know, and she didn't care since it was just our neighbors (who do the same time). But if we were going to see her sister's husband and I didn't say anything, then she wouldn't talk to me for a week or more.
Same with skirts. The other day her skirt rode up and lots of people could see her blue panties. I didn't tell her and I got excited about it, but only because I knew she would like that I didn't tell her in that scenario. But had it been at her brother's birthday party, I would have told her before it could have even happened.
You get the idea.