I have photos of one ex. We spent eight years together in our early to mid twenties. These photos range from her posing, is playing drinking/strip games with some friends, and full hardcore sex and short videos. We split up amicably and remained friends but that petered off as we entered other long term relationships. During our short stint as “just friends” we discussed the photos once and I offered to delete. She looked appalled. “You better not! If we can’t fuck anymore I want you to at least Jack off to me and remember me! Besides, I’m not getting rid of mine.” It was meant as a sort of joke/funny comment but she meant it. So I’ve kept them. My current wife does not know I have them and I don’t look at them often but from time to time I like to reminisce. Not sure how I’d feel if it was a bad break up.
As for sharing, absolutely not. It’s hard for a guy to not want to show off his conquests but I wouldn’t feel right without consent. I do get a thrill knowing that her current boyfriend would likely lose his mind if he knew I had hundreds of photos of her.
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