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My wife has a friend that is attractive (as is my wife) and has been married to her husband for many years. She confides in my wife that they don’t get along and has even shared that they just don’t have sex. I think her husband is a complete jerk. He is gone traveling much of the time. For easier understanding and anonymity, Let’s say her name is Penny and his name is Tim.

My wife and I went over so I could help with something at their house while Tim was away. There was absolutely nothing sexual, but Penny and my wife were chatting while I was working. Penny was so appreciative and helped when I needed clarification on the project I was working on for her. It ended with a lot of adoration and big, close hugs.

So here is my dilemma – I keep thinking of how great it would be to have her join us in a threesome. Ever since going over there, I have been fantasizing and getting turned on by the thought of the three of us. My wife is wonderful in bed and has getting more adventurous. She will wear sheer bras, thongs, short dresses, etc. when she would never do so in the past. But if I asked her to approach her friend, I would get such a “NO Way” (most likely).

As much as I don’t like him, I admit this probably isn’t a good idea to try with a married friend. This may be too complicated to mess with. I also want to be realistic. So, what ways would you recommend try to make what is currently unthinkable, thinkable? Interesting to see ideas on how to approach this.