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Originally Posted by Duran Duran
Like with anything in life, if it's good, you gotta work for it.
I think for most women you have to build to it. You just can't expect her to do it off the bat.
Not sure what she will and won't do, but lingerie is a good first step. Then there are a multitude of things you can do to build it up.
Start taking regular photos of her. Just normal ones at first. Get her used to the fact of being photographed. Get her to wear nice bikinis to the beach. Slightly sexy clothing when you go out on a date. Compliment her looks. Make her feel good and happy. Stay in a hotel. Go on short vacations. The more relaxed she feels the more she'll be open to it even if her upbringing tells her no.
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This does sometimes work. I know a guy, a PGK(preacher's grandkid) who married a PK. Met her in a Sunday school class. She's a deeply religious, rural Kansas, Lutheran farm wife and now grandmother.
About ten years into their marriage he got the idea he'd like to share her....to hotwife her. So where to start? He eventually coaxed her into a couple of pictures, braless with a pretty sheer white top on. He told me later that it so scandalized and brutalized her that she cried off and on for a week. But he kept up a slight, gentle pressure and followed a similar route DuranDuran mentions here. She got used to it and came to like the attention and sexy clothing. And he eventually began sharing her.
Fast forward about fifteen years and she's now exclusive to BBCs only, and spends long weekends in the bed of one on the regular. I asked how he feels, so thoroughly corrupting that young, pretty Sunday school babe. He just kinda shrugs and smiles a little, so be somewhat careful what you wish for.