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Originally Posted by Duran Duran
Like with anything in life, if it's good, you gotta work for it.
I think for most women you have to build to it. You just can't expect her to do it off the bat.
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Pretty much.
I've always taken a lot of (dressed) pictures of my wife. Every year she goes on a diet to get ready for summer. So a few years back I proposed we do "before and after" pictures. The first year or two she did them in underwear. Then I told her that she might as well do them naked; and she was ok with it - as long as they remained private. One time I took a picture of her while she was sleeping nude; and I showed it to her. She actually liked the pic because she felt she "looked good" in it. I told her she does look good naked, we "ain't getting any younger" and that some day she might like to look back at her "younger naked body." So she let me take more naked pics.
She now poses nude for me semi-regularly. But it took time and a lot of confidence building. Just food for thought. But then again, if she has a "hard line in the sand"; better not push it either.