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Old 04-11-2023, 10:10 PM
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Default unhappiness gap between reality and expectation

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Originally Posted by Myreligiouswife View Post
Has anyone found a way to relax a very Christian wife into showing strange men her body. She claims it leads them to list and sin, and won’t show ever.
Why is she like this? - I expect she will say that she values fidelity to YOU - exclusively. So her doing anything deliberately to incite erotic arousal in another man is probably an absolute red line. Any suspected pressure/manipulation will probably result in pushback.

At most, she might just take part in genuine naturist activities - but only if she believes it is innocent and not erotic for other men.

She probably knows you well enough to see through any clever ruses and any "subtle serpent arguments" suggested here.

Happiness and unhappiness is the gap between reality and desire. If I make my happiness depend on having a top-of the range billionaire yacht - I will be forever unhappy.

Ponder what you already have regarding her love and fidelity towards you - which many men will envy. This is far more valuable and durable than this fantasy. Enjoy and develop what you have with her and you are more likely to have lifelong satisfaction.

You have a fantasy which you can mentally indulge sometimes - but remember it is only an ocassional fantasy.

/end sermon - agony uncle advice.

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