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Originally Posted by Myreligiouswife
Way to casually just drop in that you have nudes of your dead aunts hahaha.
Yeah. Duran Duran, I feel like being patient through the process will be a killer. Like if I’m at the finish line coaxing her to come along….
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LOL... I talked about them in more detail in another thread a couple years ago. I now own the family "homestead" that has been in the family for over 100 years. The original wing of the house was built by my great great grandpa in I believe 1903 or maybe he got the property in 1903 and built in 1906 but either way it has been in the family for generations. one of the aunts was my great aunt and the pictures appear to be from the mid 1940's. I cam across them in one of the outbuildings that is full of old family stuff from generations. The other aunt was my dad's sister. I was the only person in the family she still talked to at the end so I got all of her stuff. What did not go to Good Will I put in that same out building and found pictures that appeared to be from the 1980's when she was in her 20's. Several people have sent me PM's but I am not sharing them. I feel that would be a betrayal. I kind of feel wrong looking at them but I can't bring myself to get rid of them so they just sit there and will probably be found by one of my kids when they get the ranch but at that point it is on them to decide what to do with them.
This brings me back full circle to the issue of consent, trust, and betrayal as it relates to your situation. Do not do something you will later regret. There would be no repercussions if I were to post my aunts. For my ex I could potentially run into a revenge porn issue. In both cases it is a sense of honor and my own moral code of ethics that prevents me from posting. In your case, legalities aside, what happens realistically if you share pictures of your wife without her permission in terms of your relationship? Does it cost you your marriage? Is that a risk you are willing to take? If it is a risk you are willing to take, maybe this is not the right person for you and you would be better off moving on to someone more in line with your values/desires. Just remember, after you pull a trigger, there is no undoing it. I teach my kids this on many issues, literally the trigger because we have firearms on the ranch, words, and in this case things you post on the internet. An exercise I did with them on a family retreat was to have them squeeze all the toothpaste out of a tube. Then I tell them I will give them $100 if they can get it back in. They spent an hour trying to put it back in but it is impossible. I then give a talk about not being able to undo or unsay certain things.