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How noticeable was the open fly of the young woman who is your coworker, was it wide open and could anything be seen within the opening?
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Her zipper was all the way down (as I mentioned she wears jeans with long zippers) but it wasn't wide open(the fabric on the sides of the zipper covered most of it). I suppose that's why nobody else except me noticed her open zipper, it wasn't that obvious unless you looked directly at her crotch.
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That is an interesting way of looking at it, especially considering how your coworker, a young woman, may have intentionally left her fly open in order to gauge your reaction. As much as you enjoyed the view, do you wish you could have seen her the moment she noticed her fly was open and how she reacted to it? How do you imagine it would have happened?
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Yes I wish that I had been there when she noticed herself that her zipper was open (or maybe someone else noticed it too after she spent several hours with it open and told her), I would have loved to see her reaction and the exact moment when she zipped it up.
I actually thought about telling her since I had noticed that her zipper was open but I wanted to do it without anyone else noticing in order to keep the embarassment for her to a minimum but there were always other people near her so I thought that it was best to say nothing as apparently nobody else noticed her wardrobe malfunction (until that timespan of maybe 2-3 minutes between me going to the bathroom and returning from it). I really would have liked to be the person telling her that her zipper is open in order to see and enjoy her reaction(and also save her from potential embarassment before someone else noticed her open zipper as she is a nice person). So on the one hand I enjoyed the view of her open zipper while it lasted but on the other hand I felt a bit sorry too for not telling her.
Of course I hoped that she would notice my open zipper after I returned from the bathroom but I am not sure if she did, at least there was no obvious reaction from her.
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Why not try to have conversation with that specific coworker, about the situation of noticing someone's fly is open in general. You two could talk about whether you would tell someone and how you would tell someone. Then you two could talk about times where you noticed on your own on or were told by someone else. That could lead rto talking about that evening get together and both of your feelings on it.
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I sent her a message on her mobile phone (via instant messaging) about 2 weeks after that evening, mentioning her zipper being open and that I still feel a bit sorry for not telling her but that I didn’t know how to tell her without someone else noticing her open zipper because there were always other people around. Besides apologizing for not telling her, to be honest, the main reason why I sent her a message is that I really would like to get a reaction from her and hopefully get her to engage in conversation about open zippers as you suggested. Unfortunately she hasn't read the message yet, I hope that she will see it soon and answer. As soon I get a response from her, I will make an update post
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By the way, can you let me know if it is possible to private message me, if it is, please send me a private message. Trying to resolve an issue where I can't private message anyone.
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