My wife has always swallowed, both when dating and after we were married. She thinks spitting is gross and really somewhat disrespectful and also a poor way to end the activity. I agree on all counts. More recently, she has really gotten into snowballing me, and since I had been so encouraging about her swallowing, there was little i could really say in opposition. It didn't do much for me... actually it didn't do anything for me, until I saw how hot it made her. After snowballing me she is ready to attack me again. I'm not real bright, but I did learn long ago that anything that made a woman more sexually charged is a good thing, and thus I have become quite accomplished in snowballing, eating my cream pie, and other such activities that are not particularly attractive to many guys. As long as it continues to turn her on, I will keep doing it. The collateral benefits are worth it.