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Originally Posted by Duran Duran
Mostly I need to be able to gauge her feeling and know otherwise it takes her out of the mood. So instead of it enhancing the situation it detracts. I don't have a perfect track record, but it's well into the 90s as I err on the side of caution and don't let the camera overstay its welcome. I want it to enhance her feeling and get her to the next level.
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You raise a very important point... for the camera to not overstay its welcome. I love photography because the camera is essentially a third person watching us (and we both know that some of the photos are likely to be shared with others). It turns me on to exhibit my wife and to have her frolic in front of the camera knowing that she is voluntarily showing off to anonymous men who will get to see her body and hopefully stroke to her images. Sometimes we leave the camera on a tripod and on timer when we get into more heated activity, but most of the time it is set aside after being used as an aphrodisiac to excite us both. When I misjudge and the camera overstays its welcome, it ruins the mood and she may "abort the mission" so to speak. My dick is happy to visit with my hand during those times, but its not the same - err on the side of caution or be rewarded with blue balls or wrist exercises.
