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Old 02-14-2023, 04:02 PM
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Default This is a very sensible approach.

The way things have gone in the World (& sadly not without reason), if I were you, I wouldn't rule out taking a video of your wife explaining what she wants, why and that she wants you to arrange it+ what the rules are. It would give get an oportunity to think out her desires so you can underdtand them.




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Originally Posted by FREDBARNES View Post
I would say a controlled environment is best. When I see something like a bar with alcohol involved could get out of YOUR control REAL FAST.

Best bet is to find 1 guy for the first time ( Maybe even on this site ) set FIRM RULES as to what can & CANNOT go on, get a hotel room, Then if the Mrs needs a few drinks YOU still are sober & in FULL CONTROL. If the guy gets out of line either You can handle it or worse case scenario Hotel Security.

Tell the guy something like she will strip for you OR you will take her clothes off. He can touch ___ ___ & ___. He can rub pussy but not insert fingers. Can he have his cock out or not? Can he finish & if so where. etc etc.

Fully discussed with FIRM ground rules is your best bet for you, the guy & The Lady.

Remember 1 bad experience = Game Over.
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