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Originally Posted by vicg
indym, I just reread this whole thread, and I enjoyed it just as much as I did the first time. I'd love to hear how you and L are doing!
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Things are going great. Thanks for asking! I don't remember if/where I've posted any of these details, so my apologies if this is old news. A lot has happened this past year!
L finished school in the Spring (it seems like ten years ago now!). Her roommates, S and her other girlfriend (an L name, too, so I call her L2), also graduated, and we are unfortunately across the state from each other, almost in a perfect triangle. We have been able to get together individually a few times, but they came to our place for New Year's, and we had a really good time.
If L had her way, it would have happened a year earlier, but we married this past Summer. I'm sure some of our family and friends thought it was really fast, but we couldn't exactly tell everyone we had been seeing each other secretly for an extra year that they didn't know about!
Since you've read our entire saga (haha), there was plenty of sex but a lot of time talking and spending time together. I remember the feeling those first few weeks/months when we were sneaking around... almost out of my mind because she was next door, and I missed being around her. She was the same way, too, and I still feel that way a couple of years later when we are both at work, and I can't wait to get home to see her. It is cheesy, and I always cringed when I heard couples talk about their soulmates, but I get it now.
The even bigger news is that L is pregnant! We talked about this pretty early on in our relationship... views on family/do you want children. I did not have any children from my previous relationship, but it wasn't because I was against it... it just never happened. With our age difference, I talked to L seriously about it before I proposed. I would have done whatever she wanted, but my preference was not to have a teenager in my 60s!!! She wanted to start trying right away... it makes me laugh typing this because I remember asking her if she was sure and if she would resent not having time to travel and do things if we got pregnant right away. That started a whole discussion of "we can wait if you want to," which wasn't what I meant at all! Before I proposed, I secretly went to a fertility doctor to see if there were any problems on my end (I was good).
It didn't take very long, but it did take about five months (she is due at the end of Summer/early Fall.) She was so frustrated, even though it was a short time frame... she wanted to be pregnant instantly! When work started for her in the Fall, we had a daily routine of me filling her up before she left for the day, and she would send me updates about how gooey her panties were or how much had leaked out... hard to focus after those txts/pictures!
Some OCC worthy updates for another time...
You've read that L had experimented with S and that the three of us had been to a nude beach together and played. We've played together another time, and L really enjoyed it. I joked that I was just the excuse to do it, and she smiled and smirked at me, haha. I was surprised by this, but she really likes to watch.
I posted in another thread that L had a boudoir shoot as an engagement present for me and really liked it. We found a local photographer, and L is very comfortable with her. We talked about doing a couples shoot and talked with the photographer about her boundaries (e.g., R-rated only or full X-rated). She was open to anything consensual, and after talking about it for a long time, we finally had the shoot yesterday. We wanted to film some scenes as well as still shots, so it will be a week or two before we have samples to look at. I'm still trying to unpack the session in my mind, but it was amazing!!! Our photographer is awesome, and we are planning on doing another when L is further along in her pregnancy. She had told us that she needed an assistant (she didn't use one for L's solo shoot), and it ended up being her girlfriend.
Nothing crazy happened, but there was just something extra hot about looking over at them and making eye contact. Both of them were cute enough in their own way, but the assistant hadn't been around anything like this before. One of our poses was L seated in lingerie and stockings with a blindfold on, and I was standing at her side/slightly behind her with my limp penis hanging next to her face. That progressed to L taking me in her mouth with her head tilted back. My head was out of frame, so I was watching the photographer and assistant. They were a few feet away, but seeing the assistant breathing hard as L started sucking me was unbelievable!!! I want to believe that they both enjoyed it and got themselves off later that night.