[loneeagle]

My being snooped on ruined my life story.
So I have had a few ex's over the years. I married my high school sweetheart. We started together when she was 14 we broke up .... married at her23 me 26.
Finally we divorced a couple of years later, because she cheated on me, but we still talk and are friendly today but had a few rough years.

A few years later I started seeing this real young mom she was 11 years younger than me. One who was pregnant during her high school.
We dated, she moved in wouldn't do anything with her life left her daughter at her mom's (which drove me crazy because I had a daughter the same age and I wanted more time than I got and she was avoiding hers wanting to be "single") anyway after several tries I broke up with her, but she was a boomerang.
She finally went to her mom's and I started dating a girl on the very down low. Double Super secret dating her mom was the only person to know.
Well one day I was a work and my landlord let the boomerang in my place to get something she forgot.
She started snooping on my computer looking at my secret stash of pictures of my past loves or whatever.
And found the ones of my new girl. Well she knew her and found one I had put next to a my picture of my ex wife.
So this is 7 years after my divorce was finalized.
Well she called my ex wife and told her who my new girl was in order to light up my life. And apparently took a phone picture of the screen and sent it to her because my wife didn't believe her and figured she was just stirring the pot.

Unfortunately my ex wife saw the pictures and had a meltdown because the girl I was seeing was her younger sister. And the naked comparison picture was devastating to my ex wife.

She didn't talk to her sister for about 6 months and me 1 year, her the ex MIL actually tried to smooth everything out and encouraged the younger that it was ok and she should be happy because that brief time was the happiest she had been, per her mom.

I talked 1 time to the other girl and moved out of that apartment, I periodically talk to the ex sister in law at events. Talk to the ex wife about weekly now.

So I F up and because I didn't hide the pictures better, hid what was going on and a snoop it ruined a what was great moment.