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There are threads about snooping, but I'd love to hear the times you know or suspect someone has snooped on you or your partner. Did it bother you, turn you on, or make you mad?

One that stands out for me is my niece. Most days, I love her, but she drives me crazy most of the time. She is in her early 20s now and still irritates me to death!!! This happened when I was with my ex, and we had dinner/going out plans with my brother and SIL.

My niece tagged along, which was unusual. She had her driver's license at that time, and she was not going with us, so there was no reason for her to come along. She hung out at my house and watched TV while we were gone, which I thought was dumb but not worth fighting about. Everything seemed normal when we got back, and I didn't think much about it. Fast forward about a week later, and my ex accused me of cheating, which I had not. Our relationship was on a downward slide at that point anyway, and my ex was livid. I asked why she thought I was cheating, and her primary response was that I thought she was stupid.

I finally was able to get her to tell me what she thought happened, and it was missing condoms. Like old missing condoms from my nightstand that should have been pitched. I had no idea how many condoms were supposed to be there, but apparently, my ex knew the exact count. We had a stand-off for what seemed like 30 minutes before it dawned on me, and I said, "fucking (niece's name)." My ex screeched at me for a few more minutes and then picked up the phone and called my SIL. I can only imagine what happened on the other end, but my niece confessed to taking them. I shouted, "don't use those old things," before she hung up, LOL.

I have no idea what else she found and looked at, but knowing her, she probably spent the entire time snooping.

A more recent suspected snooper is my MIL. My MIL wanted to retrieve some clothes from my wife and came over to get them from our room. When I got home after work and went to change, I noticed our bathroom counter lined up with our toys from the night before that I had laid out to dry after cleaning. A butt plug, cock ring, and nipple suckers all lined up neatly on the counter. I don't recall lining them up like that, and I was the one who cleaned them. I've never mentioned it to her or my wife. My wife would laugh about it, though.

I'd love to hear some other snooped on stories.