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Originally Posted by Mar89
Any tricks on how to let my wife know I want her fuck another man? she's now (after many many attempts) more open to letting other seeing her naked when were having sex, while on the beach, or during massages however most of the time, she pretend it didn't happen as she probably still shy about it or maybe embarrassed.
I wonder if there's a good and safe way to get a stranger to sleep with her while I'm there?
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This is one part of our extra curricular activities which I thoroughly enjoy. Sharing her with another man is one of my kinks if you will. One thing that really helped us make that a reality was the understanding that although we have rules and boundaries (most of which we share), they do not ALL have to be reciprocal. For a time when we started swinging it made her more comfortable to know that although I wanted to share her, she did not have to share me with other women. She is a little more possessive in that respect than I, to this day knowing she does not have to "pay me back" makes her far more relaxed with a MFM scenario.
We eventually had a few full swaps with other couples, and even a threesome with one of her girlfriends - but to this day the ongoing ability to have as much respect for our individual limits as the ones we share has been a really important piece of our journey in ethical non-monogamy.