So to give somewhat of an update, I told T I needed space. I finally found a family therapist for my wife and I though I am not sure I really like her. The county ems agency provided councilor has been ok for the PTSD stuff but I still hate talking to them. I moved T off my engine about three weeks ago when we hired a rookie. I told our chief that as the senior firefighter/engineer on shift that he should be assigned to my unit for probation period. An engineer on another engine is retiring at the end of the year and I recommended T for promotion so they moved her to that engine. It has not stopped her completely but does make it so we do not have to work as closely. Last night she started messaging me out of the blue. This was the most forward to the point I have ever gotten from her. I was going to upload screenshots but there was some identifying stuff I would have to edit out so here is the transcript... Emojis are in parenthesis
T: Chuck, I love you (heart heart heart kiss emoji)
T: Don't tell your wife (winking emoji) tee hee hee
ME: I told you I need space and am not going to start something
T: I drank something I am allergic to and need you to come here and treat me (mouth open shocked emoji)
ME: I am 45 minutes away, if you need medical attention you need to call 911
ME: Do I need to call for you?
Several minutes go by and I was thinking she might have been serious about the allergic reaction
ME: Hello are you ok
T: I drank vodka and I am allergic to it
T: It give me a serious reaction
T: It makes my legs open up ha ha
T: I neeeed you to come treat my condition
ME: You are drunk. You need to stop texting me. I am putting my phone on silent for the night.
T: Aww (frown face)
I did not respond. I am not going to take her up on it. I have made my mind up there.
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