[winston optic beer]

Yes, it has happened to me. God knows why. I'm no adonis.

Decades ago, the wife of an old university friend stayed overnight with my girfriend and me. She was in the area for a conference. The next day, my girlfriend got up early to go to work, but I had a day off. I was expecting the lady would be wanting to get away to see her family, but she didn't get her bus until the afternoon. At one point she dropped a massive hint by telling that she loved having sex. I enjoyed her company, but there was no way I'd have betrayed my girlfriend or my friend. Also she had kids and I didn't want to risk being responsible for breaking up her family. When I told my girlfriend about my day, she thought it was funny that I'd passed on the opportunity. So no brownie points for loyalty from her.

Years later at my annual works dinner, a woman who I was talking to over the table said "Would you like to fuck me?" She was obviously only interested in me because I was the boss. I didn't find that in the least appealing.

More recently, a friend's wife propositioned me on a night out. When no one except me could hear, she the most ridiculous words that I've ever heard "I want you to make mad passionate love to me." Trying not to offend her, I said that she didn't really mean it. She that I should call at her house during the day when husband was at work. This would be on her birthday so I could use dropping off a card as an excuse to my wife. I said that it wasn't going to happen.