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Originally Posted by driftwood3791
Thank you catflap, Saddledrifter, JohnScores, & 1Michael for the lovely confessions. I wish I could convince my wife to try things like this. Even just some revealing cleavage at pub would be a welcome change of pace. Any suggestions?
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Not sure what you've tried ore the situation, so I'll just throw some things out there. Not saying any of this relates to you, but I've found this works over the years.
Does your wife feel confident in her own body? If not, you could look at exercising together, eating healthy together etc. But it has to be together. Comment on how much you're attracted to her, but not in a sleazy or sexual way.
Make sure your normal relationship is in good nick. Is there something she's frustrated about? If so, try and get that mended if possible. Maybe life is just moving too fast, see if you can slow it down for her to enjoy it instead of getting swept up in it.
Have something to look forward to in terms of a small trip or outing. Build on that excitement. Buy a new piece of clothing for her.
Don't complain about work or money or any other small things that might be bothering you. Keep it positive, stay in control.
A few beverages definitely help!
Some different things you can try in terms of locations.
Deserted beach - She'll be more likely to show some skin if nobody else is around. Even if it's getting changed on the beach, it's a start.
Hotel room - Open the curtains or blinds and even if you don't move to the window/balcony having the curtains/blinds open is a step in the right direction.
Even her walking to your bedroom naked after a shower and then keeping her that way for as long as you can without making it obvious.
Like I said, no idea what your situation is or what you've been able to do. So the above may not apply.