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Originally Posted by anonjohn
if the men are also naked and behaving properly and part of a couple or "safely gay".
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Yeap. Correct on all counts.
My wife's attitude towards men will vary depending on status and behavior; and from I'm what I've seen and heard, other nudist women feel the same way.
- A nude guy with his naked partner doesn't automatically elicit trust; but if he is clearly more mindful of his wife than other women, it's a good start.
- A naked single guy will "earn" her trust after several instance of proven appropriate behavior (friendliness and no oggling).
- A single covered guy: she's going to steer clear of him.
- Several covered guys: she's putting something on or is going to want to leave.
Notwithstanding our married male nudist friends whom my wife has no problem being naked around, we also have a single male/divorced friend at the resort. We've known him for a couple years and has always displayed "gentleman-like" behavior and friendliness towards my wife. She's got no problem interacting and being openly naked around him; because he's earned her trust.
On the other hand there's a married male whom she's "caught looking" while she was bent over or had her legs open. She is now careful around him. So "observable behavior" often trumps marital status.