In what was probably a sign of things to come for me, there was a situation in my late teens (legal age) in which my girlfriend at the time was getting dressed and one of our gay male friends was over.
Everybody's wife or girlfriend has gotten dressed in front of them before, that's nothing special but in this case, my girlfriend came out of the shower and proceeded to dry herself off in front of us and then began a 45-minute conversation with both of us while she sat, combing hair and doing her makeup while completely nude and never made light of it, never commented on it, it just happened but eventually I started to take notice of it, I got hard because I turned on by her being seen by another man, even if he was gay. This was something initially felt shame for but eventually came to love it.
This was long before I got into open relationships and such and at this point in my life I was still experimenting sexually but it definitely stuck with me even to this day, I still get turned on by having my partner disrobe for my friends or guests.
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