[andyt29]

Only time that comes to mind had nothing to do with how the woman looked, but it was because she was dating a friend.

College, he was away for the weekend but she was still over at the apartment drinking with a bunch of people. Nothing unusual about that. It got uncomfortable (let's say) at the end of the night when I had gone to quite likely pass out in my room. I was startled awake and it was her on top of me kissing me. I was startled, and extremely drunk so not overly comfortable to begin with, but was surprised to find a tongue in my mouth. I had enough faculties to know who she was and that she was dating my friend so pushed her off and stammered out my objections.

She kept going. "He won't care", "He's not here", "it's ok". She gave it another go but this time was pulling down my pants and started going down on me. For some reason I just didn't and couldn't let it happen so again had to tell her to stop. She gave it a few more tries, and again I still had to stop her.

She finally gave up, I'm thinking between my objections and the likelihood that I wasn't getting hard due to my drunken state.

Over the years, i flip flop on whether I should have let her continue or not.