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Old 09-26-2022, 09:08 PM
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Default It's the surprise of it

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Originally Posted by helloyo2120 View Post
Thanks for the reply. Now that you mention it, she does seem to enjoy it more when she doesn't see it coming, or if it's a surprise. If it's planned out, then she's more likely to say "Idk about that." But if it's sprung on her, she's a lot more likely to just roll with it and even get excited and proactive about it.

Alcohol gets her hot too, and sometimes she'll tell me that she's planning to drink a little, and she'll tell me once she's "had enough" to do something a little nuts. One time was at a campground, where she said she was drunk enough to step out of the tent completely naked (it was 1 in the morning, so everyone was asleep, but still). She just stood right outside the tent, open to the moonlit air, for no reason other than, she was drunk and horny and wanted to be naked in a risky place. After standing out there for 2 or 3 minutes, we went back into the tent and had sex.

Another time, she was sober (unfortunately) we were just going for a walk in the neighborhood and found a nice, quiet, dark street. She said, completely unprovoked, "this would be a good place to go streaking." I darted her a look and she said "Not tonight, but maybe in the future, if I have a little to drink, we could go for a walk out here and see what happens."

She knows what gets her motor going, and under what circumstances she's able to psyche herself into it lol.
Same for my wife - If I try to plan things out she always backs out or finds reasons not to... but the best time we've ever had is when I texted her to come pick me up from work and "wear loose clothes" the surprise of it all and the unplanned nature led to us both being completely naked in a public park having sex.
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