I have been telling " no " twice to 2 different women.
Thé first time, in 2000, I was the President of a non-profit association (1901 Law in France) and was organazing a party in a nightclub for a humanitarian cause. My younger brother was a DJ in this nightclub, who had 2 different rooms, the main one with afro and and caribbean music, and the second one, smaller, where m'y younger brother was djing, with Rap / R&B and dancehall (electronic reggae with hip hop flavors for those who don't know, with artists like Sean Paul, Sizzla, Beenie Man, Capleton, Elephant Man....) music. My younger brother was back then a beginner in djing and was taught for an older and more expériences DJ, who was one of thé 3 DJs who were djing in my party (+ a famous R&B singer who has had a few hits in France and was having a showcase in our party). This older DJ who was teaching to l'y older brother, and a girlfriend but was very unfaithful, I learned a few days mater that if you were in town each day you would be likely to find him with a différent girl
So, one of her lovers, a very pretty and tall girl, was helping us at the. changing room, and hardly 5 minutes After she had arrives and was preparing for her work, as I was helping her, she suddenly proposed me to fuck with her. I saïd no, it was not the right time, we were working, and furthermore I would never do that to a man I know and respect, even if she was very attractive. I had been knowing her for only a few days, we had talked only a few minutes before we were working at that party, and nonneed tobtell I had already been knowing a few things about her that I didn't like at all (but it's useless to talk about it in here).
Thé second Time, in 2007, I was back then working for a comptant with 250 , to 300 employees, with a lot of quite young women, some attractive and other. way less attractive. A female co-worker, much younger, and smaller than me, but not very attractive to me (even if not ugly at all) came to me as I was in the resting room(with PCs for personal Internet connections) for 30 minutes (my work was to sell at phone, I just had very good results and been talked to test for 30 minutes. I was in this resting room, checking my e-mails for a few minutes, as I had no smartphone back then, when this female co-worker came besides me, and After a few seconds, proposed me to fuck with her. I saïd no, I was not attracted to her, it was not the right time (I didn't want to fuck at work), and, more than all, I was a lot more attracted to another female co-worker, taller and way prettier, and, furthermore, who had already send me a few évident signs she was also interested in me (WE were working together for only a few things, and I didn't want to rush the things and was willing to get to know her better before beginning a love relationship with her (she was living a 100 kms from work, I was with her only during work, it was difficult to plan a date with her after work as she was coming back home by train every evening, and she was living with her parents back then. Halas, I didn't had the luck to start a love relatioship with her, she suddenly felt ill a few weeks later, she had not a very good health and was very tired with her work and her transportation by train, 3 jours every day. When she got back to my town to find a work (there were way more work in my town than in her own town), a few months later, she already had a boyfriend
I was very disappointed, ni need to tell.