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I’m interested in reading about anyone who has hired a professional to film and take pictures of them and their partner. It does not have to be explicit filming, but that is what we are considering. If you’ve done this, please share how it went!

My wife took bachelorette boudoir photos for me with a local female photographer that we found and vetted before our wedding. During our conversation, we brought up a couples shoot, and she was happy to take them. She had not done them before and said she would need to draft a consent for us, which is completely fine.

I asked what sort of limits/boundaries she had and was surprised that there really were none, as long as it was consensual. I had to be blunt and state I was talking about sex, which made me feel a little stupid when I got a “yes, I know” response, LOL.

We told her we would talk about it, and when we left, my wife was more enthusiastic about it than I thought she would be. We film and take pictures on occasion, but they are always amateurish. Nothing wrong with that, but the idea of being filmed/photographed by a professional and someone not preoccupied is exciting for us.

I’ve asked my wife what she wants to do, and her response is whatever I want. When I repeated, “whatever I want?”, I got a smirk and a shoulder shrug… which got me pretty excited about it!

Has anyone on OCC done this? I’d love to hear about your experience.