[rracoonz]

In our experience, I placed an ad for an erotic massage therapist. It was on Craig's List and many guys replied before CL deleted it.
I screened several guys and picked one I figured my wife would be comfortable with. I told him my comeplete plan and explained it may or may not lead to sex. He was okay with it. I then told my wife about it. I told her it was an erotic massage and would only go as far as she would let it. I said that many times a therapist would rub until the patient cums. I also told her that I was okay with her going all the way with it if she and the therapist wanted.
I explained that I would be in the room, by her side for her safety, and would not allow anything to go beyond her desires. So, we scheduled. She knew it was going to be erotic, so his touching and erotic playing was not a surprise. She told me later that she had orgasmed almost the moment he first touched her because of the excitement of a stranger touching her. After she had several orgasms, he actually ended up fucking her on the massage table, then again in our bed with me joining.
It was a thrilling encounter for us and a truly break through moment in her sexuality. It has changed our life in such a positive way.
Good luck, my friend!