[Naddy3]

Originally Posted by SyFoster

Well, assuming you like and enjoy sex, that really sucks for you. Did the two of you ever discuss it? Or is it just one of those ‘unspoken’ things between the two of you?

Some people just aren’t into sex, men or women. And while oftentimes there’s a medical or psychological reason, sometimes they’re simply asexual.

I was with a woman whose husband was like this. Super-nice guy, outgoing, people-person, no medical or psychological issues, and he simply had zero interest in sex. He never talked about it. Never told her that her ass, tits, etc looked hot. Never initiated it with her. He would have rather played a board game than fuck his (hot) wife. If she wanted sex, she basically had to walk into the room naked and make it happen.

Of course that’s a big reason she started fooling around with me while still married to him.
But assuming a man and woman who both had zero sex drive got married, that seems like a perfect match.

We have discussed it and she said she cud change. And she did...for a few days, then same o same. We've been married too long and have too much family and we too old to do anything about it now.