A couple interesting observations I've made reflecting on my recent time in Spain, after the initial crushing disappointment of the lack of topless sunbathing.
Firsty, topless sunbathing does still happen. Over-the-counter course of the daycare the beach I estimated about 5%. However, these were almost always is little pockets on the beach. Some times the women were friends; the small groups of couples I saw where all the women had she'd their bikini tops made me incredibly envious - the women looked great and confident. But almost always there were women sunbathing topless near each other who didn't know each other, but were clearly encouraged to expose their breasts when they saw others close by that were also. There was one spot where every day I knew a Spanish group would turn up and their ladies would go topless. We made sure we sat close to them and sure enough other women outside their group would start to reveal their tots too. Unfortunately this didn't give my wife the courage to follow suit, but I hope this strategy will on future visits now I've seen it play out with others.
Secondly, once I realised that women weren't now lying with their tits exposed all day in case someone snapped a photo of them, but not necessarily because they had suddenly got more prudish re anyone seeing them, I realised that there were still a lot of tits to see, just not on show permanently.
I made sure I sat near some if the showers between the beach and the camping area, and also kept a casual eye on who was looking like leaving soon. Sure enough refocusing my attention to that I say a dozen more pairs than I would have just looking for topless sunbathers. There was one English mum who lay with her bikini top on (in various states on untidiness) all day without ever exposing her tits whilst sunbathing. Then 4pm comes around, she walks off the beach to the open shower area, pulls her top off over her head, and rinses the sand off her topless for 30 seconds, all the whole with me casually enjoying her tanlined tits and big nipples. She must have though the chances of a photo were much lower that way so it was low risk until she wrapped a sarong around herself.
So perhaps this is the future. Perhaps I can persuade my wife to be as equally relaxed about casual brief moments of exposing herbtits to others if the topless sunbathing is no more.
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