So the OP is not about the person who posted the OP??? Okay. OP, you worried that is going to happen to you?
I haven't been in this scenario, but I imagine that you need to make your wife see you sexually again. Dress well, live well, take care of yourself. Why should she care, if you don't. Do well at your job, show strength and leadership. Be good at something that's not too geeky, but be low-key about it. Don't make rash decisions, don't get angry. Try and understand her.
Sometimes, make her a little jealous. Let her see that other women are interested in you in subtle ways. I've always found that women react well when other women show you attention. Even women who you aren't sexually active with can be jealous of other women with you. I've seen this too many times to know that it's true. One thing I've learned over the years is that a man needs to try and understand what type of relationship a woman is actually having with him. Sometimes they are playing out a relationship with you in their minds and you are totally unaware of what is going on.
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