My wife is a real enigma when it comes to this. When we were younger we’d go skinny dipping and play strip games with friends. It always felt more sexual for the guys and more “funny” for the girls. They thought it humorous that we were naked but weren’t necessarily aroused, meanwhile us guys were taking mental screenshots for later use. But I always wondered if while my wife wasn’t really interested in seeing others if she enjoyed being seen. I’ll never get a clear answer as she is reserved in some ways but I believe so. She’s been seen naked through the window and gives an “oh well. Lucky them” quip if I mention it. But while she claims to just not care I believe she wants to be desired. Especially after dropping ten or so pounds a few years back. She wears very revealing bikinis now that she never wore even before putting on any weight. And I often catch her changing positions at the beach or pool at very coincidental times like when young men walk by. I wish we could be open about it because I’d love to create these moments with her. But the conversation has never really allowed it. Silly. She wants it and I want it but it’s weird to say so.
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