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Originally Posted by helloyo2120
My wife always considered herself somewhat adventurous. We were friends for a long time before we ever dated, so she knew that I was very kinky and liked doing bdsm type of stuff. So when we finally did start dating, she informed me that she was okay with bondage. She had been handcuffed by a prior boyfriend. That was all. I taught her all about safewords and those rules, and to keep me informed on what she was and was not okay with, and I'd ease her into it. So I introduced her to being tied up in different ways, different positions, spread-eagle, hog-tied, for extended periods of time, etc. She came to really enjoy it and was very-much on board with exploring the submissive lifestyle a lot deeper.
Eventually we started getting into her being a submissive anytime we were alone together in my home. She would take her clothes off when she arrived and remain naked until she left. She would follow commands. It took a little training, but eventually I got her to start calling me "Master". Then we worked our way up. She would refer to me as "Master" when we texted back and forth. She would capitalize any word that referred to me and make any word that referred to herself in the lower case. So instead of "I'll see you tonight" she would text "i'll see You tonight." This actually happened so frequently that she once accidentally texted "thanks Master" to a friend of hers, lol. She was very embarrassed, but she thought it was really funny and he brushed it off as some weird auto-correct mistake.
We worked our way further into her submission. I would text her when I was almost home, so she could greet me on her knees at the door. She would ask for my permission before doing anything, including having to go to the bathroom. I would spank her, sometimes as a punishment, and sometimes as foreplay, and she learned to say "thank you" after each spanking.
I had key words I would say. Like "mannequin" and she wouldn't be allowed to move or speak until I gave her permission. "Pet" and she would get on all fours and would act like a dog, and bark until I allowed her to be human again. It was extremely immersive, and she really enjoyed it. This went on until I got laid off from my job and we ran into money issues. She needed to work more and I needed to bring in a roommate, and so the Dom/sub fun had to end. She still brings it up that she wants to do it again when we're by ourselves, but we haven't been in the financial position to do it ever since. Hopefully soon. I taught her a lot, and it'd be a shame for all of that to go to waste.
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Me and my wife have finally been able to move into a home where we could be alone and no longer have roommates. She's still working, but she says she wants to ease back into the full submission lifestyle she used to live. We've decided to do a sort of benchmark system. Like, once I find a job, she would start calling me "Master" again. Or once she no longer has to work, she'll no longer be allowed to 'whatever'. I have since gotten a job and she is now calling me Master as promised.
So here's my question to the community. Does anyone have suggestions for benchmarks? If such-n-such happens, then she'll give up such-n-such, or have to start doing such-n-such, or is no longer allowed to such-n-such.
Her goal is to be a complete submissive, so nothing is off the table. The end goal is that she has to do whatever I say and is not allowed to do anything without my permission. Basically she would relinquish all freedom, choice, possessions, and dignity to me, willingly, as a way of sexual gratification for herself. Our reason for easing her into it instead of ripping off a band-aid is that it's been a long time since she's been in that state of mind, and we're also still finding our footing financially. Basically, the more that financial responsibility shifts away from her, and onto me, the more she feels she'll be able to focus on being my sub.
So does anyone have any ideas on what I can accomplish? And what freedom she would have to relinquish once I have achieved said accomplishment?