My partner likes a little bit of bondage play. The same with exhibitionism.
She isn't into full-blown dom/sub stuff, but she enjoys being told what to do and some sensual bondage. It started with some books and movies, and I asked her if she wanted to order some things. She didn't say no but was hesitant. I filled an online shopping cart with things and sent her a screen capture. I believe her exact response was "OMG"
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We have a few other fun things to play with (a swing and a Sybian), and if I set up/pull out any of that stuff, she is pretty triggered/distracted, LOL.
As far as exhibitionism... she loves hotel sex and leaving the shades open. I opened them the first time, and she opens them on her own now.