Thanks! I think I get your point. To answer your question yes, we dated for a few months but didn't go all the way that was before covid. Then she got stuck in other part of the world during covid and now I met her again last year once travel restrictions were off but briefly.
I understand that it is very shallow of me to dump her only for that reason. I thought I was just looking for a way to convert her from not liking BJs to liking BJs. Also, somehow I had this misunderstanding that if she loves me enough she will do it for me, I never had a problem with getting BJs in any of my relationships before.
But you put it right way it should not be the reason break the relationship. I will try some of the suggestions that other members in the posted, but if it still doesn't happens then I guess all I can tell myself if that some guys are just lucky!!
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