My wife is at a cross-roads bj-wise. Before me, she blew a guy almost every day; bfs, friends, whoever wanted one. She loved it.
Then she met me and got "serious", and decided that bjs reminded her of her skanky past (although I told her she was a grown woman and it's awesome no matter what she did). Nothing I said could help her shake that feeling.
She wouldn't give me bjs for a long time. My first wife and other women I had dated never, ever did it, so I was used to the disappointment.
Then my wife suddenly got into bjs for a while. She was absolutely terrible at it, and they only lasted 30-45 seconds, so it more of a tease than anything, which made me wish she didn't do it.
Then, recently, she has started doing them again. Still rare, but they last about 2 minutes each time, which is improvement.
Hopefully she starts doing them again regularly and have them last longer.
It never used to bother me until her best friend, who is generally very reserved and conservative, once told my wife that she wakes up her husband with bjs every single morning and she loves doing it so much. (That is quite the alarm clock!!) Yet my wife, who wants sex every single day even after 20 years, and she wants it anywhere and everywhere, hates bjs.
(On the flip side, she also hates when I go down on her for the same reasons stated above. The other day, though, I went down there and she had some of the best orgasms she has ever had, so there's a plot twist.)
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