What she told me so far is that she just doesn't likes it, doesn't enjoys giving it. She tried it with her ex. But she does like getting oral sex. I asked if she will be ok with 69 where we can mutually pleasure each other but she said no. She will receive oral sex and enjoy but is not willing to give it back, which I think is selfish.
I also asked if she enjoys me cumming on her various body parts. She was ok with all other places except face, which she said, she finds very disrespectful. I have a feeling somehow she feels that sucking cock is something only sl*ts do. I am not sure if there is a way out of it. Sexually to me it is like what foreplay is to women, makes me hard real quick, like women get wet with foreplay.
My last girlfriend was very good at it and that is what I miss a lot about her sexually. I am also not sure if this is something I should be dumping this girl for if everything else looks good with her and she still refuses to suck at all. Leaves me with a lot of sexual frustration for the entire relationship.
I will try and talk to her as you guys suggested. But what I have understand from conversations so far is that most of the girls don't do it in marriage and only some like doing it out of which mostly are just doing it to please their partners and don't actually like it themselves, so a very few women are out there who actually love it.
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