I had a boss, more on the modest and mousey side, but cute, who I became friends with, we regularly talked about our families and such. She and her husband were having issues (she is very organized in life, him not so much) and she was discussing whether they wanted separate bedrooms. But she decided to share that while their sex life was good, she had a higher sex drive than him and wished he'd initiate more. She definitely was not doing it as a come on to me (she'd previously shared some bad experiences where a coworker had propositioned her on a trip) but it was a turn on to hear her talk about her sexual needs. In subsequent conversations I tried to bring up the bed situation again in hopes of hearing more, but sadly not.
Interestingly, on a work trip at a different job, where I was sharing an airbnb with another coworker, we had a whole conversation about sex, but because she was a much more open person, it was less sexy.
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