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Originally Posted by chi-town8080
The updates of your adventure with "L" are great! Thank you for sharing. I'm looking forward to reading more, especially with "S" involved.
On a side note, I met the love of my life when I was 32, and she was 24. I know it's not the same age gap you have, but we had 19 wonderful crazy years together.
My only advice is to have fun and love each other as much as you can 
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Thank you for the kind words. At the start of our relationship, I worried about what others would think more than I needed to. Easy to say that now and probably easy for others to read about it and think it, too. I thought about it a lot, and I'm confident that I wasn't worried about myself. I didn't want others giving L a difficult time and passing judgment that she might not have been equipped to handle. We've had a couple of women get catty with her, and I made a mental note to always stay on L's good side!
The relationship with S is hard to explain. I'm a guy, and I think she is very attractive, without a doubt. She purposefully teases me and sometimes is oblivious that she is doing something that is very sexy. She is L's best friend, and I've never seen a hint of jealousy from L, but I feel like I could ruin that quickly if I'm stupid. Hopefully, you get a sense of that dynamic. There is one thing for sure, though, L is the one that controls it. There are days that L wants to tease S and is happy to put on a little show. A few times when she wants S to be involved. Most days, it is just the two of us, and those days are great! I've told them both how difficult they make it for me, and they love it.