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Originally Posted by visa0061
Is having your wife nude in your backyard, with just you, as exhilarating as a crowded beach, resort, pool party, etc?
If the answer is "no", you sir are a candaulist lol.
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To answer that question: it's NO!! LOL!!
I see my wife naked all the time; and I'm just used to it. But when someone else sees her naked and responds to it, I see her naked "through their eyes", if that makes any sense. If it's new or interesting to them; then I "vicariously" experience their experience.
One fact that I didn't mention is that my wife has what I call a "chunky labia" (she refers to it as "lippy.") I guess a more technical term would be "labia minora hypertrophy." Even before we started going to resorts, I knew that people would notice; because I would notice it in other women. So my options were simple: either ask her to keep her legs closed (that would have been ridiculous IMHO); or simply relax and let her enjoy being naked without worrying about other people seeing her thick labia. I do recognize that "embracing it" takes it a little bit further.
I guess the same idea would apply to anyone with a really hot SO, or an SO with massive tits/ass; or whatever clearly distinguishable physical feature she might possess. There simply are women who are going to stand out in a crowd - even among other naked women. Some people are going to respond to it by staying away from the crowd, others by trying to blend in and remain unnoticed; and then some will simply accept and/or embrace being noticed. In the latter case, that's where the lines between comfort and exhibitionism; or enjoyment and caundalism can get "blurry." You see that a lot at events like the WNBR; where some naked women who "stand out" will stop and pose to be photographed naked - often as their SO watches and enjoys it.
With all that being said, this is not just a "guy thing" either. There are nudist women out there who get a kick out of other women looking at their SO's cock, for example; especially it it's the biggest one around. Things can quickly become blurry from there, if that thought triggers a stimulation for the woman. And the next thing you know, it's the woman who is "crossing that line" into caundalism.