Interesting thread.
I always wonder who the labels are for, though? In my opinion... they are to comfort us and somehow insulate us from what we worry others think.
To Shihoin- I think you are taking a refined view of caudalism... and you know what? That is fine! Who cares about the label. Enjoy what you enjoy, and don't feel constrained by a label.
We've experimented more this past year and have probably mentally told ourselves several different stories. It started with sex on the balcony while on vacation. The first time we thought we were being quiet, and no one knew until we were done and heard voices. I think we both pretended to be a bit embarrassed at first. The next night, we knew people were sitting on their balconies all around us and didn't care. We didn't really talk about that at the time, specifically, but it was a turn-on for both of us. We were in Hawaii, and the sound was unmistakable
We tried a nude beach close to us several times this past summer, too. The first time we went, we both wanted to believe it was "natural" and no big deal. Yes, it is natural... but it is also sexual. Once we relaxed, it was a lot of fun for us. We both liked others taking a peek at us, and it was fun to just people watch. We saw everything from the guy trying to make sure every woman there saw him (Mr. Look at my Dick), the female equivalent (Ms. I Look Better at 20 Feet Away), and a lot of in-between people.
We had such a good time, we've been back and taken people with us. I could lie and say it was just for them to experience it, but the truth is that we both wanted to be seen (apply whatever label is needed) and to see them. I found it hot and exciting for others to look at my partner. Some tried to be sly, probably to keep their self-imposed label intact, and others were less covert about it. It was fun, regardless.
I'm not interested in sharing my partner, but I didn't mind others looking! It was fun to talk about it later and get her perspective on things. She didn't care for the guys trying to more or less hit on her. We made friends with an older couple, and she thought they were sweet. He looked just as much as the other guys, but it was fun to hear her perspective. I showed her off a little more to him, on purpose, too.