I'm a bit of a candaulist
I like the idea of my wife being naked in social situations. But I'm more of a bdsm/dom-sub/enf enthusiast. So as much as I would enjoy being at a nude beach with my wife where everyone is naked, I would much prefer a pool party where my wife is the only one who is naked.
For me, I think I'm less excited by the thought that people are looking at her, and more excited rather by the thought that she's embarrassed to be the only one naked. So while I'm not embarrassed to be naked at a nude beach... if I were to notice that no one else on the beach was fully naked, then I'd prefer to put on my trunks, while keeping my wife totally naked. She'd be the odd one out, the only one nude, it'd make her feel embarrassed, and THAT would be what gets me hot. Maybe she asks if she's allowed to put her swim suit back on and I say no.
I say this because there were times when a friend of mine would come and hang out at our house. If he would hang out late enough, sometimes he'd fall asleep on the couch. Being an especially heavy sleeper, I would sometimes have my wife disrobe in the living room, right in front of the couch. I'd teasingly play keep-away with her robe. He was asleep, and never found out that she was completely naked mere feet away from him. I didn't care that he was asleep, because it was more about her being the only one in the room who was naked, and not being able to get dressed again.
If it were up to me, she'd be naked permanently regardless of company, but that's a lofty fantasy.
|