Her parents
My wife and I enjoy being in a Dom/sub relationship. Her being naked and submissive in front of me, or the occasional friend who happens to be aware of our exploits is one thing. But I feel like if she were to be naked and/or submissive in front of her parents, and her parents being accepting of it would sort of cement in her mind, her submissive status. I think it'd be as if her being a submissive has leaked out of just social or romantic life. Her parents seeing her like that and being okay with it would be less of an embarrassment, or her acting like a submissive in front of family, and it'd turn into more of a part of her identity. Psychologically speaking, I think it's easy for a woman to identify as a submissive if she enjoys that aspect of her sexual life, so long as she gets to hide that part of herself from those closest to her, or to family. But to open that side of herself up to her family and have them accept it would require a little introspection on whether or not it's an identity or just a hobby.
Her parents love me, and are often making jokes about how she's a brat, and that I should make sure to keep her in line, and that she deserves a spanking. Of course they always mean this in a harmless teasing way, sort of juxtaposing her being an adult, with being treated like a child. That being said, it suggests to me that if they were to be aware of their daughter being a submissive, they'd probably be more okay with it than my wife would assume. And not to toot my own horn, but I think they'd be okay with it specifically because they like and trust me so much.
Anyway, long story short, I like the idea (fantasy) of her having a sort of "coming-out" to her parents about wanting to be my submissive, disrobing, and acting as my naked submissive in front of her own parents. And if her parents accept and support their daughter's decision, then there is virtually no sanctuary for her to hide her submissive life. If her parents support it, then there'd be no point of hiding it and she could truly be a submissive 24/7 regardless of whose company we're in.
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