Pretty much everything
My wife always considered herself somewhat adventurous. We were friends for a long time before we ever dated, so she knew that I was very kinky and liked doing bdsm type of stuff. So when we finally did start dating, she informed me that she was okay with bondage. She had been handcuffed by a prior boyfriend. That was all. I taught her all about safewords and those rules, and to keep me informed on what she was and was not okay with, and I'd ease her into it. So I introduced her to being tied up in different ways, different positions, spread-eagle, hog-tied, for extended periods of time, etc. She came to really enjoy it and was very-much on board with exploring the submissive lifestyle a lot deeper.
Eventually we started getting into her being a submissive anytime we were alone together in my home. She would take her clothes off when she arrived and remain naked until she left. She would follow commands. It took a little training, but eventually I got her to start calling me "Master". Then we worked our way up. She would refer to me as "Master" when we texted back and forth. She would capitalize any word that referred to me and make any word that referred to herself in the lower case. So instead of "I'll see you tonight" she would text "i'll see You tonight." This actually happened so frequently that she once accidentally texted "thanks Master" to a friend of hers, lol. She was very embarrassed, but she thought it was really funny and he brushed it off as some weird auto-correct mistake.
We worked our way further into her submission. I would text her when I was almost home, so she could greet me on her knees at the door. She would ask for my permission before doing anything, including having to go to the bathroom. I would spank her, sometimes as a punishment, and sometimes as foreplay, and she learned to say "thank you" after each spanking.
I had key words I would say. Like "mannequin" and she wouldn't be allowed to move or speak until I gave her permission. "Pet" and she would get on all fours and would act like a dog, and bark until I allowed her to be human again. It was extremely immersive, and she really enjoyed it. This went on until I got laid off from my job and we ran into money issues. She needed to work more and I needed to bring in a roommate, and so the Dom/sub fun had to end. She still brings it up that she wants to do it again when we're by ourselves, but we haven't been in the financial position to do it ever since. Hopefully soon. I taught her a lot, and it'd be a shame for all of that to go to waste.
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